Bathroom Remodel

It ALL started out as a whim purchase: 

We love to visit the local estate sales, we get amazing finds like this mirror at great prices. This piece was a whopping $10.  We had a horrendous wall to wall piece of glass in a small half bathroom that I was not fond of and thought this would be an easy update to a bathroom I had no intention of redoing.  We had just finished a large redecorating project on our master bathroom, and had just begun our upstairs bath by placing shiplap on the vanity wall. Taking down the wall paper, texturing and painting the walls, upgrading fixtures and installing chair rail had taken over 6 months in our master bathroom and I wanted a break. 

The half bathroom is just 39 inches wide, not much more than a short hallway with no exit on either end. I didn't hate the wall paper, or the décor, it was okay and I could live with it, it was pretty but not too tacky!  What we didn't know would be the adventure beginning with the removal of the old mirror; AND discovering......the most horrifying fear of every homeowner: BLACK MOLD! So now the room I had no plans to do anything with would become the biggest remodel in our house to date.  We were beginning to wonder if we would ever get the house finished.  Deep Breath and S  I  G  H!  First step was to remove the infected wall board and determine where the mold was coming from, how far it had spread and what damage we were looking at.  I kept telling my husband, after we are done, we will realize a $10 mirror may have saved our lives.

  

At this point I need to add a little back ground. Our home was built in 1998, so at 20 years old it was fairly new, there were no major structural issues when we moved in. It is a story and a half with the upstairs bathroom right above the half bath.  The people who we bought the home from were older, and we think they did not use the upstairs very much so the upstairs bathroom was pretty much unused.  I think you can guess where this is going. We moved in with a family of 3 adults. Our daughter has her room upstairs and the upstairs bath became hers, which began to be used all the time. What started out as a minor issue before we moved in had in a few years matured into a disaster.

The waste line for the upstairs toilet ran right behind the wall in our half bath, and the PVC had been punctured in multiple places by negligent construction workers during the building of the house. The nails you see were left in place and were a minor contributor, but we also found actual holes that were leaking with each flush where the mirror we removed had been attached to the wall. The builders had not cared where the waste line was when putting up the mirror and drilled into the PVC for the mirror brackets.  Both top and bottom. We patched the holes and made sure there were no more leaks. Once we felt confident the damage had been stopped, we had to find out how much we were going to have to do the repair the room.    This lead to the project going to a nearly complete gutting of the room and remodel; new vanity, new faucet, new sink, new wall, new floor. 

The old vanity proved to be quite the quest to get out. The original plan was to rescue and reuse the vanity, so we attempted to carefully remove it in one piece.   After a lot of struggle and some discussion we decided that it would not come out in a single piece, so out came the sledgehammer. It proved to be very easy to remove in multiple pieces, however, that would mean we couldn't reuse it.  Once we got it out, we found the black mold had infected the vanity as well,  making it completely unusable and off to the landfill it went in pieces along with the huge wall mirror.   

In the meantime a concept needed to be devised for the new décor.  We couldn't keep the current wallpaper because the removal of the old moldy vanity had pulled a lot of it off the wall (plus the builder had not wall papered behind it). Now where does one start going from a fully decorated room to newly blank slate with a new décor idea needed. I came up with a few ideas but nothing really set the torch ablaze.  Until my daughter pointed to the Texas flag and said "could you use that as inspiration?"  From that point on the project became a labor of love.  YES, red, white and blue! I could jump on board and run with this inspiration! 

  

The quest for the replacement vanity was something I was actually looking forward to. After spending lots of time on-line getting ideas from Pinterest and trying to find what I saw there on the big box stores websites; I still couldn't find anything I really liked. The big box stores vanities were all cheaply made and overpriced.  After watching for many years lots (and I mean lots) of DIY shows in which a piece of furniture was converted to a vanity; I thought this would be a project I could get excited about, and bonus, our bathroom would be unique.  We found the piece of furniture I was looking for after only a couple of antique markets. I don't know if I was happy to have found the perfect vanity on the first day or if it would have been more exciting to have spent more time looking before I found the piece.  The shop owner didn't even have a price marked on it, we assume she never intended to sell the dry sink, so we got it for a steal after making her an offer.  It was not the correct color though, being a sage green and I wanted something different (red, white or blue). The dry sink needed to be cleaned, sanded, primed, painted and varnished.  This little dry sink needed to undergo a major transformation.

With the whole wall removed, we had another issue to deal with before we could install the new vanity.  

The plumbing didn't fit between the walls. The joint from the floor to the drain was more than 4 inches, which means it was wider than the 2X4's used for the studs.  I don't know why the builders didn't just apply furring strips to add an inch (which is what we did), instead they shaved the back side of the dry wall and cut a hole through it to accommodate the joint and hide it behind the vanity.  We also found the floor was not extended under the vanity, all we had was slab. I went to the local tile store and found the right tile; from the picture as you can see, I only needed about 6 tiles, but the tile shop didn't have any "in stock". Which meant ordering a whole box and paying minimum $100 extra just for shipping. Another plan needed to be devised.  Another issue was the PVC running along the floor behind the vanity; this is our dryer vent. it ran from behind the old vanity and out the wall on the right. This is still my nemesis.

At the same time the tiling and vanity colors and concepts kept floating around my head, My husband was trying to figure out the wall board and the mudding and taping and how to prevent anyone from ever putting holes into the repaired PVC drain. AND he kept saying I was trying to figure out things way ahead of him. I think I spent as much time trying to make the picture in my head a reality, than it took to do the actual work.  I would try to explain the concept to my husband, he still couldn't visualize the finished project; during the project in the master bath, he had learned to trust that I could make it great, so he did the work, while I sweated the details.

After we got the wall board up, he mudded and taped and put up a new light fixture. Then the old wallpaper had to come down. I figured out a pretty smooth technique, it was time consuming, but pretty thorough. I would get an edge or a corner free from the wall and with my fingers pull strips of wall paper down, sometime they were long and large strips, and many times they would be little tiny bits. This method of course left up a lot of wall paper paste, as the paper itself became separated from the paste. We came in after all the wallpaper was down and used water to moisten the paste and pull it down, usually within a matter of minutes a whole wall would be clear, right down to the wall board. There was nothing under the wall paper except the original wall board. If you look at the original mold picture you can see the builders didn't even paper behind the mirror. Then came texture and primer. We primed and painted the whole room white before adding the other colors.

So now we are back to the Texas flag.  The concept took many different profiles before I ended up with the final concept.  We would tile behind the vanity with white 6 inch tiles, and create a border in red 2 X 6 inch tiles, basically creating an alcove affect. This technique filled the empty space left by the missing tile and created a nice back drop for the vanity, which was painted a beautiful blue. The whole concept could have been wrapped up on the one side of the room. with the tile being white and red and the vanity being blue, I really didn't need to go any further.  But OH YES I DID go further.

 

This left the remaining walls to figure out, as you can see in the picture, I decided to leave the upper part of the wall white, and paint the lower half red. So then where do I put the blue color?  Do I paint one wall blue, one white, one red? Do I make a part of the room multi-colored with white and red horizontal stripes?  Conceptualizing the Texas Flag took a unique turn at this point. The Texas state flag is very much akin to the USA flag with a red stripe, a white stripe and a field of blue but with a single star. And the design took its most interesting turn yet.  I would do 3 walls like in the picture and one wall with a field of blue and a single white star.  But which wall?  I didn't really want to obscure the star with the mirror, so the wall above the sink wouldn't work. A long wall would be too much and a small wall not enough for what I wanted to do. This led to what I think was the unique part of the whole design. From the door back, and around the wall with the throne would be blue with a single star IN THE CORNER.

The fun part here was with the wall painted white, all we had to do was paint around the shape to create the star. Making the star would prove to be a far  easier project than my husband anticipated. Because it was in the corner, I only had to make half the outline and then flip it over to the other wall to make the second half identical.  Using some large paper left over from the previous occupant, I took the measurements from several points: from Top point to bottom leg, from top point to bottom crotch, and top point to crossbar. I measured the points from the Texas flag flying from our front porch and transferred them to the paper. It took me a couple of mis-starts to find the perfect place on the paper to make the template; once I got it cut out, I traced around it on the wall and put up the painter's tape.

From a plain white wall emerged the Texas Star.  

Seeing the completed image of the back wall made the whole project look  like it would be coming together just as I had foreseen. And then the holidays happened, and the project got put on hold for a   L   O   N   G   time. It wouldn't be until February that we could get back to it.  And this would prove  to be the most difficult and time consuming part.  The cutting of the vanity and the installation of the plumbing.  I know what you are thinking, tiling was probably not that simple, designing the star and putting in a new light fixture are not easy projects. I had confidence in my capabilities to do those projects, but I was dreading the cutting of the cabinet.  I could see how to do it in my head, but the actual measuring and cutting were a little daunting.

Remember in the beginning I told you we loved to go to estate sales. We were blessed with a lot of other great finds that we needed to do this project for amazing prices. We found a tile saw for $10, we got a table saw for $20, we got a reciprocating saw for $15, and a jigsaw for $8; and we used every single one of them for this bathroom remodel. We could no longer ignore the dryer vent crossing the room. Due to its location, it had to go through the cabinet, there is simply no other place to put the pipe. We couldn't redirect it without making major changes.  The dry sink was meant to be a stand alone piece of furniture, and now we had to cut out a big part of the support structure. 

The PVC pipe would not fit under the bottom shelf, and the water pipes and drain pipe were going to have to go through the middle shelf. Not to mention cutting out the back of the cabinet so it could sit up against the wall and allow the plumbing to be on the interior.  Even though we followed the old adage, measure twice and cut once, we still made some minor measurement errors and had to take the piece in and out to fit and then cut more and then fit and cut more. All in all the adjustments that needed to be made were pretty minor as you can see in this picture. My husband got a lot of exercise, and had some pretty sore muscles the next few days.  But after dozens of trips in with the cabinet and out again to shave off another inch or so, we got it against the wall.

We used the wood that we removed from the cabinet to accommodate the dryer vent to make a shelf to create a chase for it through the back of the cabinet. My husband was so excited to finally hook up the plumbing.  We did have to call in a plumber to make the drain connection water tight, but you can see here how it all came together inside the cabinet without losing a lot of the structure that makes the cabinet sound.  And the vanity is REAL wood, not that fiberboard MDF that the big box store vanities were all made from.  This will be around for a long time.  They just don't make stuff like they used to, we got our bathroom upgraded and it cost us about a third of the cost of the cheapest new model we were looking at.

We still had to finish the project. Getting the bathroom in working order was the first step, but now we had to make sure it looked nice and would disincentivize anyone from putting holes into the PVC drain ever again, even assuming they had no idea where it was in regards to the wall. A coworker asked if we had put up a metal plate behind the wall to prevent that in the future, but we were not aware of such a product until after we had the wall back up. It was not worth tearing it down again. So I placed shelves up against the wall to make it less likely of a repeat of the original mistake that led to the nightmare we found.  I was originally going to put a towel rack on the side of the vanity, but got one that was too big, so I ended up attaching the towel rack to the bottom of a shelf. I think it put the towels in a lot more accessible location for use. 

Adding shelves and decorations made our small bathroom look like I had originally envisioned.  I still have to devise someway of covering up the remaining PVC dryer vent line that is visible in the lower left corner. I think a piece of plywood covered with white tile may do the trick. And of course no bathroom is complete until the curtain is put up.  After the last election, we had to do something with our Trump flag. It became the perfect curtain, and the cherry on top of the cupcake.

The best part is: final touch can be seen from the front door.

 

Proclamation of great news

Ezekiel 33:7 "So you, son of man: I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; therefore you shall hear a word from My mouth and warn them for Me."

The Lord called me back in 1985 to discern the wicked workings of the Devil and his minions. To call out warnings. To proclaim the preparation for battle. To speak the Word of YHWH. It is not my position to elaborate on or belabor the message given. I will proclaim the Lord's warning and allow the Holy Spirit to work out the meaning in your heart.
 

Justice for life? Maybe not.

"The judicial Power of the United States, shall be vested in one Supreme Court, and in such inferior Courts as the Congress may from time to time ordain and establish. The Judges, both of the supreme and inferior Courts, shall hold their Offices during good Behavior, and shall, at stated Times, receive for their Services a Compensation which shall not be diminished during their Continuance in Office." US Constitution, Article 3, Section 1. http://www.usconstitution.net/xconst_A3Sec1.html


Now here is a good example of most citizens not knowing what the Constitution says. Justices are not appointed to the Supreme Court for life, nor for any lower court. It is simply not stated thus.

But it brings up a dilemma: because what in the world did our Founding Fathers mean by "good Behavior"? With so much discussion on what the 2nd Amendment means, shouldn't there be even more discussion on what constitutes "good behavior" in a judge?

So if a justice gets drunk and falls asleep during a State of the Union address, is that justice upholding a standard of good behavior befitting a justice of the Supreme Court of the United States?

Or does it mean that if a justice is ruling on how they wish the Constitution was written and not the actual language in the Constitution is that justice acting in "good behavior"? Is judicial activism unconstitutional behavior un-befitting a Supreme Court Justice?

And if the justice has used poor judgement and a President can use said behavior to hold a justice's decision hostage should the justice not be removed?

What is a life worth?

We live in a world that is living in squalor. Hatred and destruction are everywhere we look; from the Middle East where ISIS is destroying monuments, to the Southern United States, where the call is to exhume bodies of the “intolerant”, and erase all signs of our culture because of its perceived history.

We see the awful things happening around us, but don't want to admit that the reason things are so awful is because of us, and yet the simple truth is that we don't NEED to be awful. Human life is so valuable that Almighty God had to experience extreme suffering and torment of soul to show us a better path. Christianity has the solution, but the sinners in the world cannot see the simple truth.

Others religions, such as Islam, do not confer value upon human life. In fact, a video was making its way around the Internet in which a Muslim woman hoped her son would become a suicide bomber and take the very lives of the same Jewish people that had just saved his infant-life through a complicated surgery because the Muslim people do not regard human life.

In our own culture, the cult of abortion is removing the value from human life. By denying its very significance from conception, we are denying the merit of human life throughout the life span.

The current din coming from the homosexual crowd calling Christianity hateful is due to the simple fact that sinful people cannot separate their sin from their identity. It is easy to see when they continue to demand that we accept them as having been “born this way,” while denying that being born homosexual is contrary to their belief in the theory of natural selection.

For Christianity the world is clearly definable, sin is the nature of man, and yet man is redeemable. Man has greater worth and must somehow see that his sin is the monstrosity that is blinding himself to the truth; the Truth that they are truly priceless.

A eye-surgeon knows that removing the cataract will be a painful surgery with a lengthy recuperation, but the end product is worth the process. To leave someone blind and pitiful is cold-blooded, not the other way around. So in essence, despite the hue and cry that Christians are being mean for calling the world out on its sin, they are really trying to clear the mud away from the sinners eyes so he can see how truly valuable he is in the eyes of the Almighty Creator.

Naturally, Humanity is NOT gay!

Here is my take on gay lifestyle:

In the Middle East it is acceptable to screw animals: camels, sheep, goats and donkeys. The Muslim people see nothing wrong with this practice, but we think it is deplorable and not acceptable.

Here in the US, we have a population that thinks it is acceptable to screw a member of the same sex. The Muslims think it is deplorable and, in fact, will stone, or hang, or behead or throw the person from a high building to kill them.

But simply observe how the human body looks. The man has a penis, and the woman a vagina, and these two apparatuses fit together perfectly. This is the natural design of humanity. The design of the human body was naturally meant for the use of these body parts in this fashion, anything else could be considered unnatural.

So for a human to have sex with a member of the same sex is UNNATURAL.  I can see it, and even those who think homosexuality is okay can see it. It is not natural and I should not be made to claim that I do not have a problem with it.

Another take:

Today’s question is: Why does the world say that an unchosen sexual disposition isn’t changeable, but an unchosen gender is? http://www.moorematt.org/qa-series-why-does-the-world-say-that-an-unchosen-sexual-disposition-isnt-changeable-but-an-unchosen-gender-is-day-2/

Here the writer uses the terms unchosen to describe homosexual disposition. I agree it is a choice.... Here's why:

There is nothing natural about desiring a member of the same gender (see above). So when one begins to have those desires a choice is made....... to either accept the desires or to deny them
and choose to accept the natural choice. Only when you make the choice to accept same sex attraction as your predilection do you begin to act on it. The desires may be real or not (nothing has yet been determined psychologically), but the actions that lead to the homosexual lifestyle are clearly a CHOICE.

Homosexuality is not something we are born with....... but your gender is something you are born with.
The hypocrisy of demanding that we accept homosexuality as unchangeable and gender as changeable is laughable. Gender is natural, homosexual inclination is NOT natural.

If I can look at you, another human being, and say you are white, or black, or male or female.....but not say you are gay, then it is NOT NATURAL, it is not something you were born with. Demanding I say otherwise is simply being a bully.

What is tolerance?

WE are told that religion is the scourge of the world, that all conflict and hatred is bound up in man's inability to come to terms with everyone inherent worth and the desire to make others feel less moral than we.  Yet, in the world that we live, many claim the badge of tolerance and therefore they feel that they are morally superior. They accept everyone as they are, they make no judgement, they do not discriminate, they love everyone. EXCEPT.......

They really don't.

There are many examples of this:

• Sarah Palin and her Down's Syndrome son Trig have been attacked mercilessly by the left using terns that they themselves say are hateful (ie. C**t, Retard, Imbecile, Batshit Crazy, Bit*h, etc)
• Rush Limbaugh is a large target because he isn't afraid to tell the truth about what is going on in Washington DC and he must be stopped, even if they need to tell lies about him to get his voice off the air.
• The TEA Party movement is called traitors and terrorists, because they simply want the size of government to shrink, they want American citizens to be responsible citizens, they want illegal aliens to not be given handout that have been paid for by the Americans who are now being told they will never see any benefits from their years of sacrifice.
• The military are ridiculed by those who have never offered a single eyelash to defend our way of life, nor protect another human life (and that includes pre-born life).

One begins to wonder how those so intolerant of so much can call themselves tolerant?

Because the term does not mean what it originally meant.  Dictionary.com defines tolerance as: 

1. a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, beliefs, practices, racial or ethnic origins, etc., differ from one's own; freedom from bigotry.
2. a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward opinions, beliefs, and practices that differ from one's own.
3. interest in and concern for ideas, opinions, practices, etc., foreign to one's own; a liberal, undogmatic viewpoint.

But as we are now seeing, there is very little acceptance of opinions that differ from one's own.
Instead the term has been redefined (a well-used tactic of the left) to mean the complete opposite of its original meaning.  The self-righteous left is now using this term to mean ..........................................

The intolerance of intolerance.

Let that sink in............... Instead of demanding that other's be respected for their inherent worth, we are told that some people are to be more respected and many people are to be disrespected because they supposedly are disrespecting others.  The Moral High Ground is to hate others because they hate.


Doesn't this sound a little like two wrongs being used to try to make right?

I, being a self-righteous elitist get to define who the haters are and then I get to hate them, and not simply with hate, but with

HATE!!!  









The world  has become a more dangerous place because Tolerance has reared its ugly head in our world.  When those who like to feel that they love everyone, that they are accepting of others', and non-judgemental become the arbiters of the terminology this is the ugly turn it can take. Now Hating has become okay as long as you are hating those who you believe, even without cause, are hating.

Those who claim to speak for the oppressed have now become the oppressors by trying to remove the voice of those they disagree with. It isn't even about helping the oppressed anymore, it has become about: hurting and destroying anyone who thinks differently than you.


Tolerance = Bigotry    How do we un-weave this tangled web of lies and deceit?

A shout out to Alfonzo Rachel for clarifying this for me.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hoU1lMxZqU&feature=youtu.be

Hierarchy of Significance